Happy valentine's to all the friends! And the thing that has been realized by your majesty is, that every time i am writing something over here, is because of getting perturbed OR overjoyed. Hmm.. so this one is the 6th valentine's since when...umm.... i started understanding the meaning of something like this. And actually, the meaning of this complicated four letter word 'love' has changed so much.
'Love' - each individual has a different story, a different definition. My tiny mind wonders...What exactly is the essence, reason of this feeling? what makes a fellow human become so important in a short/long time? And when that "cupid" strikes, does the sweet-bitter venom of that sting remain forever in the blood? or if at some point of time, one gets out of the hunky-dory world when 'that' person is no more the ideal one, or the 'spark' goes away (as once mentioned by a dear friend of mine) then does it mean that the love has vanished?
I am astonished by the way this 'love' makes humans do things that they could never even think of doing otherwise (yes casing its for you!).... my two dearly 'lovebirds' ready to face all the agonizing hindrances just for one cause, is amazing! I can see the faith, the empowerment..its like a powerhouse somewhere down that makes them fight against every obstacle. Bravo to you! Other that this one incidence, there is this pair (Kaks and M) who got their 'love' forever last month by getting into the married community. This is so amazing, relieving and sweet.
Now when there is this hope, that keeps me keep my faith intact in this complicated word, there are such a huge amount of failures that make that faith go straight down. Every now and then lads forgetting everything and 'moving on' make this four letter word so tiny and meaningless. And there is this big question -'does it happen again?' Does only the face of that princess/price change without altering anything at all? I somehow feel that next time its more of a careful step, than that rush... an adjustment, rather than willing acceptance...with a fear of failure once again... that idiom 'once bitten, twice shy' holds very true somehow.
What i want to convey.. is not very clear, because this mind is thinking too much and is not able to portray upon this canvas... This feeling survives forever in only a few hearts, and empowers them, perpetually.... ehhh..whatever.. Love is in the Air.... ;)
"Does that mean love has vanished?" The simple answer is no because what vanishes can never be love. May be one starts perceiving 'something' else as 'love' and then it looks much complicated. I think that any sort of love has to be abstract and subtle. Only then there will be an associated 'build up' process which is the primary reason to keep the faith going. In the absence of such a 'build up', the break up seems to be inevitable.
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Well if it IS something that is perpetually embedded in the heart, then that means it can happen at most once, because then the embedded picture can not be deleted or re-painted. The subtle nature may not always be something pleasurable, in fact, mostly its not.. But then, who says love means getting what one wants... so..i guess...cool...! But this 'build up' "falls down" in a jiffy that leaves one wondering all the time...!
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